My husband is an architect.  In the context of this blog, that’s fairly meaningless information except that all of our significant others (spouses, partners, kids, parents, close friends) impact our lives in ways both subtle and dramatic. For example, while most people have travel journals filled with pictures of sunsets and scenic vistas, mine are filled with various close-ups of architectural details like cornices and columns and downspouts (oh my!).

One of the other effects being married to architect is watching an inordinate amount of Discovery and History channel programs on architectural and engineering marvels.

One recent such program I [really wasn’t] watching was being moderated by the lead engineer in charge of maintaining one of our famous structures. I honestly don’t remember whether it was the Golden Gate Bridge or the Empire State Building. However it was a significant structure and one that even those people who can’t find South Dakota on the map have no doubt heard and could possibly guess its location.

The moderator made a very striking comment – one that has stuck with me while the rest of the program quickly faded from my memory. He said that structures are like the human body. The human body doesn’t fail all at once. First one system — eyesight, muscular-skeletal, pulmonary, circulatory, whatever — starts to fail, then other systems follow. Structures — specifically buildings — are the same way. Given the lack of outside influences (like earthquakes), a building doesn’t just become decrepit — first a system — like plumbing or electrical or HVAC — will fail and need to be fixed, then something else will have problems, and on and on. (Those of you who are homeowners are sitting there nodding your heads, aren’t you?) Further, when one system has problems, either the faulty system itself or the repair of the system can cause issues elsewhere. For example, leaky plumbing can cause foundation issues. Fixing the foundation can damage the exterior of the building (not to mention one’s budget).

I’d never considered this before. I’d always just assumed that as I aged, my entire body aged at the same rate or started to malfunction at the same time — my skin would wrinkle, my hair would turn grey, I’d lose some of my eyesight and hearing, and eventually some of my mental and physical abilities.

But much like the building with the haywire plumbing, those of us with RA have one system (our immune system) that is not only haywire itself, but it is causing havoc for the rest of our bits and parts — like our joints. And besides that, efforts to stem the damage by using powerful drugs, has its own set of destructive mechanisms on otherwise innocent bystander bodily functions and parts.

And while we have our own maintenance engineers (doctors, pharmacists, physical therapists, to name a few), we have one great advantage that buildings and bridges don’t have. Humans are self-healing. We have the ability to make lifestyle changes — diet, exercise, rest, mental health — that counteract or impede the ravages of both time and disease.

In an earlier blog, Do What You Can, I pointed out the success I felt at finally going to a water aerobics class and how doing anything is better than doing nothing. So this weekend, do a little self healing. Walk an extra few steps, eat a little healthier, get some good rest, hug someone you love, and find a reason to laugh.

Thanks for checking in.